The Compliance Curve: How Abusers Train You to Break Your Own Boundaries
Abusers do not need force to gain control. They use exhaustion, pressure, and predictable backlash until you start managing their behavior to avoid harm. This is the compliance curve, one of the most dangerous early signs of coercive control — and most people never see it happening until they’re already inside it.
Micro-Distortions: The First Signs of Abuse People Are Taught to Ignore
Abuse rarely starts loud. It starts with small distortions that make you doubt what you heard, what you felt, and what you know. These early microaggressions are the foundation of coercive control, and most people are trained to overlook them. This post breaks down the first signs of abuse people often ignore—and why the right response isn’t communication. It’s leaving.
Surviving Gaslighting: How Abusers Rewrite Your Reality and Undermine Custody Cases
Gaslighting isn’t confusion. It’s cognitive demolition.
Because silence is what they count on
This blog isn’t just a space for personal reflection—it’s a declaration. A refusal to be erased. It is the beginning of a louder, unrelenting fight for change.